A Catholic funeral expresses the hope of resurrection and provides friends, family and the Church community with an opportunity to pray for the soul of the deceased and to entrust it to God.
It is an ancient practice of the Church to keep vigil on the eve of major Christian feasts and this practice is extended to funerals. On the evening before a funeral, those who wish to may have a vigil service for the deceased person. The vigil service usually takes place in the church but it can be held in the family home. It is a time for the community to gather with the family of the deceased person, to keep watch and find strength in Christ’s presence, and to celebrate the person’s life.
The usual order of a vigil is: opening song, introductory rite, liturgy of the word, prayer of intercession and concluding rite. Before the concluding rite there is an opportunity for sharing memories and paying personal tributes to the deceased, such as speeches, poems, songs or symbols. The family may also choose to include a rosary or part of it.
Funeral Service with Mass (Requiem)
The Funeral Mass includes the reception of the body, the celebration of the liturgy of the word, the celebration of the liturgy of the Eucharist, and the final commendation and farewell. When the body is received into the Church at the beginning of the Mass the priest sprinkles it with holy water in remembrance of the person’s Baptism.
The scripture readings highlight the mercy and forgiveness of God, and the prayers are for the deceased person, the bereaved, those present and the whole Church. Full use of song is encouraged for both the Liturgy of the Word and the Liturgy of the Eucharist.
During the Final Commendation and Farewell the gathered assembly bids farewell to one of its members and entrusts them to the care of God. This is followed by a song of farewell, during which the body of the deceased is honoured with incense as a visible reminder that during the person’s earthly life he or she was a temple of God and dwelling place of the Holy Spirit.
Funeral Service without a Mass
At a funeral service or Mass the community gathers with family and friends of the deceased to give praise and thanks to God for the gift of the deceased person’s life and to commend the person to God's mercy and compassion.
Sometimes a family prefers a simple funeral service without a Mass, with readings from scripture, prayer and music and a final commendation. During the commendation the casket is sprinkled with blessed water as a reminder of the person’s Baptism. Incense symbolises the prayer surrounding the deceased person and rising to God. There is no liturgy of the Eucharist or Holy Communion at this service.
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The Rite of Committal
This is the final act of the community in caring for the body of its deceased member. It may be celebrated at the grave, tomb or crematorium. Whenever possible, the rite of committal is to be celebrated at the site of committal.
Psychologically and emotionally this final act of separation is often a most difficult time for the family and friends of the deceased. The full reality of death is experienced as the body of the deceased is returned to the earth from which it came and the family and friends must "let go" in the act of separating themselves from the deceased.
In these difficult moments the Church, once again, offers its comfort and support. Viewed in the context of faith the grave is not a place of despair and hopelessness but, rather, united with Christ in his own death and burial, a place of rest and peace in which the soul of the believer is with Christ and the body awaits the promised resurrection on the last day.
This rite is very brief. It consists of an invitation to prayer, recitation of a scripture verse, prayer over the place of committal, the act of committal, intercessions, Lord's Prayer, concluding prayer, and prayer over the people and dismissal.
Like all the other elements of the Catholic funeral, in these final moments the family and friends of the deceased do not stand alone, but with the Church there to offer its gift of presence and hope based on faith (NZ Bishop Conference).